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WE MUST
UNDERSTAND
Slavery
negated
Valentine’s Day
By Roy Douglas Malonson
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If you’re among our estimated 2 million readers in the 30 major Texas
cities and millions more that access our Webpage (www.aframnews.com),
it’s safe to say that you’re familiar with our editorial policy to honor
special occasions and holidays. If so, you more than likely consider the
above head appropriate for our Valentine’s Day edition that’s celebrated
during Black History Month. However, we might have been just a little
bit too presumptuous when we wrote the head before doing the research to
validate information that coincides with our premises. Inasmuch as our
African forefathers were subjected to the most brutal form of human
bondage in the history of civilization, It’s only logical to believe
that slavery negated Valentine’s Day, i.e., romance, love and marriage.
Logic notwithstanding, there’s truth to the proverb, “Love conquers
all.”
We Must Understand, since it took a special kind of people to survive
over three hundred years of brutal slavery, we certainly shouldn’t have
been surprised to learn that just as slavery failed to kill many
enslaved Africans indomitable spirits, it didn’t even come close to
negating the kind of spiritual love that ultimately makes a people’s
males and females soulmates. (FYI: Everybody or almost everybody knows
the 7 biggest lies that almost everybody--poets, novelists, scholars,
rappers--tells about Blacks, love and sex: 1) Black love collapsed in
slavery; 2) Black love collapsed after slavery; 3) Black love collapsed
after the Great Migration to the North; 4) The Black family has always
been a matriarchy characterized by domineering women and absent men; 5)
The history of Black love is a history of fussin' and fightin' by
hard-hearted men and heartless women; 6) Black women are sharp-tongued
sapphires who dis' and run; and 7) Black men are sex-crazed hustlers who
love and run. Everybody--or almost everybody--knows that. The only
problem is that the story almost everybody knows is almost totally
false. As a matter of hard historical fact, the true story of Black
love--love colored by, love warmed by, love Blackened by the Black
experience--is the exact opposite of the traditional myth. For
regardless of slavery, regardless of segregation, regardless of
everything, Black men and women have created a modern love song in life
and art that is the loveliest thing dreamed or sung this side of the
seas. It is scarcely possible to understand the history of Black men and
women unless we make at least an effort to understand this fact and the
further fact that the African brought his mind and his ethos--and his
eros--to America with him. It is perhaps the only reason Black people
survived in this land.-Paraphased excerpt from Ebony magazine’s June
2003 edition.)
We Must Understand, since the powerful article (Written by Lerone
Bennett, Jr., one of our greatest living historians and author of Before
the Mayflower: A History of Black America, 1619-1962), from whence the
excerpt came isn’t required reading for African Americans, there’s a
strong possiblity that Willie Lynch’s “niggerzation” still lingers in
descendents of slave’s pysche. The book How to Make a Slave suggests,
“Understanding is the best thing. Therefore, we shall go deeper into
this area of the subject matter concerning what we have produced here in
this breaking process of the female n-word. We have reversed the
relationship in her natural uncivilized state she would have a strong
dependency on the uncivilized n-word male. Nature had provided for this
type of balance. “We reversed nature by burning and pulling a civilized
n-word apart and bull whipping the other to the point of death, all in
her presence. By her being left alone, unprotected, with the MALE IMAGE
DESTROY-ED, the ordeal caused her to move from her psychological
dependent state to a frozen independent state.” Denial aside, its
logical to believe that if a people is able to make as much progress as
we’ve made in the past 140 years (in spite of centuries of chattel
slavery, brainwashing, miseducation and misresentation by a racist
nation’s mass media), We Shall Overcome some day. Then again, when one
stops, looks and listens to the mass media’s persistent attacks on
“sorry Black males,” who cause Black women to justifiably proclaim, “I
can do bad by myself,” Willie Lynch’s propehetic “niggerization” process
resonates in Black America, because far too many of our women don’t
know, or have forgotten our slave history and are now making the same
mistake again. Consequently, even if love and/or romance aren’t
endangered in Black America, there’s no denying that Slavery negated
Valentine’s Day.
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